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Don’t forgive the people who haven’t supported you in the past.

That’s right – you read correctly. I don’t want you to forgive them.

I want you to thank them.

Every day, in my head, I thank the people who said I wouldn’t be able to start my first business at age 15. Every day I thank the people who thought I would fail opening a real estate agency at 21.

When people expect you to fail or don’t support your endeavours you can do two things. You can believe them. Or you can show them. I know which I chose to do. What’s your choice going to be?

I chose to use their negativity as fuel for my energy and drive. I used their words as motivation when I was feeling low. I decided that success was the best and only form of revenge I would ever enact on these people.

In life you are always going to encounter negative people. If you don’t meet these negative people you will never know the following:

How much you should love and appreciate the positive and supportive people in your life
How good you’re going to feel by becoming successful and proving them wrong

You can get angry, you can try and get even – OR you can get on with it and become an unequivocal success. Two options will get you tired, probably bitter and will usually prove the doubters right.

Remember – Success is the only acceptable form of revenge.

Kirsty Dunphey has first and foremost always been entrepreneurial. From her start at an early age working in her parents small businesses or opening her first business at 15 – she’s had the bug her whole life.

With two businesses and two part time jobs under her belt by the age of 15 to her own real estate agency at 21 Kirsty has been described as "Little bit Aussie Battler, Little bit Sassy Entrepreneur."

In 2002 Kirsty was named as the Australian National Winner of Telstra’s Young Business Woman of the Year Award. Winning this prestigious award and in fact being its youngest ever recipient shows the depth of her knowledge, experience and most importantly passion.

Through speaking, training, coaching and wide variety of products and materials Kirsty takes that passion, that experience and that drive and injects it into your organization, your career, your life. Anything is Possible and Kirsty has developed presentations, workshops and reading materials to show you how to use simple techniques to change your mindset and change your life.

http://www.kirstydunphey.com

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